About me: Hello, I am a 34yr old, African American male that lives in the East bay (about 10 miles north of Oakland California). I am 5'9, heavyset, black hair, brown eyes. I enjoy composing music, and writing. I am looking for a woman who is turned on by, or is involved in BDSM (Bondage/Discipline, Sado Masochism (submission) and is open to experiencing it with an experienced dominant.(Check out my group's website at http://home.pacbell.net/optimus9/index.html) She must also have a good sense of humor. She must be warm, and have a passion for life, plus be willing to try new things. She should also live in the bay area, or very close to it. (African American is a plus) If this sounds like you, email me.